SOS....smart, but not at this... so confused

the more i read the more lost i get. i have had this phone about 3 months.. was committed to htc tilt 2. but i love this phone....
here are my (probably asked 10,00 times before) forgive... but I believe i need to upgrade to 2.1 because i ave 1.6 now? I was to root my phone but hear i need to do this first or that first..yadayada i am willing to paypal someone to call me and walk me through it... I hope i am not one who gets bashed for already answered questions but it all gets confusing...
so if you have a second i would love any step by step instructions... I have the aTT XPERIA X10.... PRETTY PLEASE...
here are my (probably asked 10,00 times before) forgive... but I believe i need to upgrade to 2.1 because i ave 1.6 now? I was to root my phone but hear i need to do this first or that first..yadayada i am willing to paypal someone to call me and walk me through it... I hope i am not one who gets bashed for already answered questions but it all gets confusing...
so if you have a second i would love any step by step instructions... I have the aTT XPERIA X10.... PRETTY PLEASE...
